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Wednesday, January 11, 2012
Damaged Goods
So I was talking with a good friend whos husband happens to work for my ex. If you know anything about my life lately is has been nothing less than a bad soap opera with lots of drama. An ex who cant move on. So after the most recent "issue" I was talking to my friend today and she said "Im gonna tell you this and I hope it doesnt hurt you" She said when her husband whom I will not name was talking to my ex my ex said "I am over her, she is damaged goods". One may be upset but I felt the opposite which infact may seem weird cause for many years I went through life feeling like I was damaged good, nobody would want me, not worthy of the best, but at this very moment when she told me this I felt sadness not for me but for my ex because it shows his thinking, I find it so sad that someone can feel that there is someone anyone considered dmamged goods. I know better now, because I have drawn close to God I know that I was made for a purpose I am special, beautiful in his eyes. I know that I make mistakes and that I am not perfect but I know that I am not damaged goods. We were all made new again, we were forgiven of our sins, we are precious in his eyes. When someone can go about life and see others as "damaged Goods" my heart breaks because they must not know of Gods unfailing Love, his mercy and his grace. So I sit here with sadness for my ex who spoke these words, I sit here with tears of happiness because in this very moment I have realized I once excepted a label like such and today I am free from feeling that way. We were all made for a purpose we all matter, beautifuly and wonderfully made!
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In one sense, we are ALL damaged goods, but yes, because of Jesus, because of God's grace and mercy, we are made new, clean, free of ALL sin. We are wonderfully made. We are precious and beautiful and worth more than words can say.
I'm so happy you took this as food for thought and it evoked a whole new confidence in you. That is what God gave us the Bible for in the first place to use it as a double-edged sword to fight off the enemy. The words were intended to hurt you and yet you are able to rise above it and remember that the devil is full of lies. I'm proud of you for believing in yourself and your faith and choosing NOT to believe words like this about you that are full of hatred. All our prayers may help the ex someday but in the meantime, continue NOT letting what he says get to you and you will continue getting stronger! I love you.
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